Do All Cheaters Think The Same?

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  1. Kenzi El shaer

    Kenzi El shaer41 минутын өмнө

    how are they defending cheating?own up to it,apologize and don’t do it again

  2. Positivity Bloom

    Positivity BloomЦагийн өмнө

    Jeez watching this just disgusts me man. Like wtf, how is cheating EVER okay. No matter how bad the relationship is, no matter how toxic the person is, CHEATING IS NEVER OKAY, THATS IT. Just freaking break up if u r not happy with the relationship u r in. Just imagine how much getting cheated on affects a person, thats gonna haunt them for years. Because of that experience, they won't even be able to trust any other future partner they get into a relationship with, and here they are complaining that the people they cheated on aren't trusting them. WoW

  3. Andrei Novac

    Andrei NovacЦагийн өмнө

    I only made it to the 5 minute mark, I couldn't listen to this ppl lie. The truth is that they only care about themselves and that's how they always gonna be!..well most of them. Habits are hard the break, addiction is even harder. Unfortunately most of ppl who cheat are addicted to cheating. They always go back to it after a period of time, or when they going tru some hard times.

  4. Bradi Uni

    Bradi UniЦагийн өмнө

    I feel like cheating would give you so so much anxiety.For example Hiding your phone,Being guilty,Worrying that someone will find out,Ruining relationships.

  5. Angie H.

    Angie H.Цагийн өмнө

    These people are childish af. Grow up, learn how to communicate how you really feel, and just stay single.

  6. Tia&Tom

    Tia&TomЦагийн өмнө

    I clicked on the video and found out it wasn't as interesting as I thought it would be 🍵😒

  7. k P

    k P2 цагийн өмнө

    90% of these comments are talking about how awful these people are and how they're trying to normalize cheating, when in reality they all admitted they feel a deep guilt and shame for what the did and majority of them said cheating is terrible and would never do it again.

  8. Keith Coye

    Keith Coye2 цагийн өмнө

    (Do all lawyers think the same ?)

  9. Keale Cade

    Keale Cade2 цагийн өмнө

    you cannot be in love and cheat. that doesn’t make any sense.

  10. CharizardDragon

    CharizardDragon2 цагийн өмнө

    This is why I didn't wanna watch this video. I kind of knew there would be a lot of hypocrisy in this and it just sucks to think about all the people these guys hurt and who hurt them. Cheating is a terrible effing cycle.

  11. Leah Richards

    Leah Richards2 цагийн өмнө

    As someone who has been cheated on, this makes is really hard to watch.... In my opinion, you don't truly love someone if you cheat on them...

  12. Spirit Thompson

    Spirit Thompson2 цагийн өмнө

    All I see is a bunch of emotionally abusive and manipulative people. She really said “ oh you’re gonna have trust issues? That makes me wanna go back to what I was doing” BYEEEEEE 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢

  13. Megan Rose

    Megan Rose3 цагийн өмнө

    5:11 prolly cause you cheated on him.... idk just a thought

  14. Random User

    Random User3 цагийн өмнө


  15. RoseEyed

    RoseEyed3 цагийн өмнө

    Cheating or not, Leah seems a bit young to get married, especially if she's only ever dated one guy. Maybe I'm a cynic but I feel like there's a lot you have to learn about yourself before marrying but you need time and experiences with others to do that. I had a friend who was with only one guy for 4 years. They broke up, and now that she's in a new relationship and has had time to look back she realizes that the two of them weren't that healthy to begin with. But she wouldn't have known that if she hadn't spent that time by herself and in new relationships. I think she was right to want to explore but she did it in a very bad way.

  16. RoseEyed

    RoseEyed3 цагийн өмнө

    A lot of people are saying "if you loved someone you wouldn't cheat on them." And I respect where it's coming from. You should try to be the best for those you love. But unfortunately that's an oversimplification of how complicated people are. We often fail at trying to be our best. And sometimes we're honest to god afraid of love. Maybe we've been hurt before or have to deal with trauma. We self sabotage sometimes, even when trying our best. The fact is the people you love WILL end up hurting you at some point. It's just a question of how, and how the two of you will respond after. It doesn't make cheating okay in the slightest. But sometimes the people who love you will do crappy things and that can unfortunately include cheating.

  17. Faith Hope

    Faith Hope4 цагийн өмнө

    (1) Cheating hurts- it’s irrational to me. If I can’t be with the person I want to be with, I’ll be happier alone. (2) no. (3)it sucks but yeah I would, because I’d be guilty for not pleasing my guy. (4) yes. (5)yes and no. Looks can be deceiving and I’m not always happy with my looks so I figure woman look more prep than me. (6) so-so

  18. RoseEyed

    RoseEyed4 цагийн өмнө

    I don't like cheating. I'd rather you break up. But roughly one in three people have done it, so rather than just (understandably) demonizing it, it may be better to talk about how and why people do it. Often times it's the result of insecurity, selfishness, personal suffering, past trauma, and occassionally because the person's a jerk. Addressing those things collectively (and individually) is a better route to solving it than just going cheating = bad. Having open relationships if you know you aren't comfortable with monogamy also helps.

  19. Skyler Rock

    Skyler Rock4 цагийн өмнө

    At this point in 2020, if you can’t understand that cheating is bad, then here’s the door 👉🚪

  20. Keri Adolfson

    Keri Adolfson4 цагийн өмнө

    I’m sorry, but I don’t have any remorse for these people. I don’t care what you have gone through. If you don’t like the relationship you are in then break it off. There is no need to fuck up someone else’s life.

  21. Valencia Owens

    Valencia Owens4 цагийн өмнө


  22. —kay

    —kay4 цагийн өмнө

    these people give me a headache

  23. cyma a

    cyma a4 цагийн өмнө

    you can’t be inlove and cheat smh

  24. cyma a

    cyma a4 цагийн өмнө

    benefits when u can break up with them .... wow some people have a horrible mindset don’t cry when u get cheated on by the one u “loved”

  25. Taeyoming

    Taeyoming4 цагийн өмнө

    I can't believe I just eye rolled for 13 minutes straight

  26. Noname

    Noname4 цагийн өмнө

    This just proves the mentality of someone who cheats ...... excuses .... excuses..... plays the victim....

  27. Stephanie Arcadia

    Stephanie Arcadia4 цагийн өмнө

    this is just terrible

  28. lorelei cherrybird

    lorelei cherrybird4 цагийн өмнө

    what bugs me is that some of them were like "if a guy cheated on me I wouldn't put up with it" but yet they cheated and literally acted like everything was okay. And the guy was like "I let everyone know what i'm like, and i'm a total fuckboy" and expects other people to just accept it because he told them. Also him bringing up that people didn't "listen to his needs" so he cheated.

  29. JCM YT

    JCM YT4 цагийн өмнө

    Pink panther looks like the biggest hoe😂

  30. Lesbian Ahegao

    Lesbian Ahegao5 цагийн өмнө

    In conclusion, go get therapy before you ruin someone else's life

  31. Aidedwarrior 24

    Aidedwarrior 245 цагийн өмнө

    Don’t trust them they all lie🤨🤨

  32. Valeria Maldonado

    Valeria Maldonado5 цагийн өмнө

    no reason is a good reason to cheat on someone. im literally sorry but just break up honestly. these people are heartless in a way. i couldnt imagine giving someone my time just to find out they have been giving there time to someone else. no hate tho.

  33. Hentai the Clout God

    Hentai the Clout God5 цагийн өмнө

    And I would heavily suggest that man searching for someone interested in an open relationship rather than blatantly just going around cheating and hurting people he is in "love" with. Unless of course he will be committed to them and no cheat.

  34. Zachary Kalker

    Zachary Kalker6 цагийн өмнө

    At around 335 the girl with the pink hair said that something you do as a teen shouldn’t affect you for the rest of your life. From my observations, she is progressive and cough, cough- Bret kavanaugh and etc

  35. cesar perez

    cesar perez6 цагийн өмнө

    Do one with cheaters and people who got cheated and people who have done both I feel the results and the convos would be hella interesting

  36. L P

    L P6 цагийн өмнө

    7:29 CHEATING IS ALWAYS WRONG! whether you feel like the relationship you’re in is toxic or not, cheating is always wrong and it shouldn’t take brain cells to know it. break up with them if you have to. it doesn’t matter if you’re doing it to get back at your partner, and arranged marriage or an accident your partner forgives you for. if you’re doing something behind your partner’s back that you would want them to know about it’s cheating and it’s wrong. tell me this, if cheating wasn’t wrong why is it a discussion in the first place? finally lol, if you cheat idc, your partner deserves so much better than you. thank you bye.

  37. Gabriela Orona

    Gabriela Orona7 цагийн өмнө

    Honestly, these people don't have consideration for themselves or other people. I don't think they actually understand how cheating can change a person for the worse too. They all literally said they would forgive someone for cheating on them because they also cheated..... :\ They do not have respect for themselves or others. Relationships now adays are taken way too lightly...... if you can't stay loyal and committed to someone then fuck it, just be a hoe, there ain't no shame in that. I rather be a hoe than a cheater honestly, less feelings get hurt.

  38. Ingrid Molina

    Ingrid Molina7 цагийн өмнө

    sooorry but, like cheaters and no cheaters are 50 50 .... honestly a lot of people cheat and is better just to accept that there is people that don´t fit for sexual and emotional monogamy... Once I accepted and spoke to my partner about it we came to the agreement of being sexualy non exclusive. Now we CAN´T cheat because cheating is about the lies not about the sex, and we are honest

  39. The Flash

    The Flash7 цагийн өмнө

    I Like JENN

  40. YoursTruly

    YoursTruly7 цагийн өмнө

    Okay the dude asked a lot of good follow-up questions. Put him on your question committee, Jubilee

  41. B00tyrice *

    B00tyrice *7 цагийн өмнө

    5:38 you dont love someone if you're willing to hurt them that deeply. It just makes zero sense to me how she can claim to love someone yet hurt them so bad because of her own selfishness.

  42. Curtis Wilkes

    Curtis Wilkes7 цагийн өмнө

    Is it just me? Or is the guy with his jacket on one shoulder bugging anybody else? Haha

  43. Helena Ramos

    Helena Ramos7 цагийн өмнө

    Cheating is disgusting, there is no excuses, let's not normalize It CHEATING IS WRONG

  44. Lara M

    Lara M7 цагийн өмнө

    What the actual f*ck. I feel so frustrated they are so normalising it. They are toxic people.

  45. ilysaportax33

    ilysaportax338 цагийн өмнө

    Really, Jubilee? An episode about cheaters and you got 4 women and 1 gay man?! Let me know which MGTOW casted for this episode lol

  46. Kristen Dyson

    Kristen Dyson8 цагийн өмнө

    Please do one with people who have been cheated on!

  47. Ayanna Worthen

    Ayanna Worthen8 цагийн өмнө

    If you cheat on me I can't trust you anymore. There's no point staying together

  48. Vincent Brooks

    Vincent Brooks8 цагийн өмнө

    Those two chicks saying "Why don't he trust me after I cheated" are morons, but the point they are trying to make is actually pretty valid. If you're going to take a cheater back you have to truly get over it and work on fixing the relationship or else you are just pointlessly subjecting yourself and them to more stress. Theses girls unwittingly have told us; "If someone cheats on you and you're afraid they will do it again just dump them and move on cause if you keep harassing them they will just go and cheat again anyway."

  49. Sweet Sukeule

    Sweet Sukeule8 цагийн өмнө

    Wow... I am shocked. Are they ok? Like wth

  50. Nukedawhales

    Nukedawhales8 цагийн өмнө

    Great quote by Chris Brown.. "These hoes ain't loyal."

  51. Jacey Buchorn

    Jacey Buchorn8 цагийн өмнө

    how are you gonna be a self described cheater and then say you wouldn’t forgive someone if they cheated on you?????

  52. CisKyThaLimit

    CisKyThaLimit8 цагийн өмнө

    I love the black dude... hes so insightful... he broadens the question and forces the group to delve deeper into each prompt... you can tell hes been through some things.

  53. Hey Yall

    Hey Yall8 цагийн өмнө

    Man I hate cheaters.

  54. TheReMorseCode

    TheReMorseCode8 цагийн өмнө

    The lack or remorse and lack of seriousness from these people is shocking and sickening.

  55. Random Gurl

    Random Gurl8 цагийн өмнө

    You should make your next video “Do All MNgosr’s Think The Same?”

  56. First name Last name

    First name Last name8 цагийн өмнө

    Cheating has no excuses. If you really don't feel like you belong with the person, just explain it to them, leave and don't f-k up their life damn it! Is being a decent human being to much to ask for?

  57. leaves0fpurple

    leaves0fpurple8 цагийн өмнө

    I like Vincent a lot, he demonstrates the commitment to accountability for change

  58. Isabel Baez

    Isabel Baez9 цагийн өмнө


  59. Maggie Gonzalez

    Maggie Gonzalez9 цагийн өмнө

    I was cheated on when he was out of town for work. After that I’ve always told anyone I date straight up, “If you feel the need or want to cheat on me, just tell me and we can work on it and if not, just break up with me.”

  60. Kenzie Ortiz

    Kenzie Ortiz9 цагийн өмнө

    bruhhhh the cheating is always wrong prompt really grinds my gears... NO ONE SHOULD EVER BE CHEATED ON OMG